We've Been Where You Are

Over fourteen years ago, God brought us together — two people who had already watched a marriage die once. We had both walked out of long marriages that ended in divorce. We knew exactly what that loss felt like. So when we found each other, we didn't waste time. Eight months of long-distance dating, and we knew: this was an answer to prayer. We got married.

Three and a half years later, we separated. A year after that, we divorced. Each other.

Let that sink in. Two people who found each other in the wreckage of one divorce walked straight into a second.

For three years, we lived that separation. And in that space, God did something we didn't expect. He didn't just show us how to fix our marriage — He showed us what was broken in us.

It wasn't pretty. Doubt. Fear. Old wounds. Resentment we'd never actually dealt with — all of it surfaced. But God doesn't waste pain. Month by month, through counseling and through surrender, He rebuilt what we thought was gone for good. Our marriage was restored. And it hasn't stopped growing since.